So why did I stay with him?
Because he was cute and sexy! He was like catnip to me! We want Richard Gere to lift us up out of the factory and take us home! You have to really get educated and take your time. And the main thing you have to do is stop yourself.
You have to court yourself first before you court anyone else and that means use the Panasonic to take the edge off instead of a martini before you go out on a date! Right, you really have to think clearly! If you treat it like a business deal, it will never go wrong. If people have half a brain in their head, when they do a business deal, they take their time getting to know the opposite person for a partnership.
Become Your Own Matchmaker: Most people are unhappy about their love life, so how can you attract from a place of unhappiness? I teach you a technique in the book that shifts that, and all of my eight steps in the book are pretty easy and fast reading.
When the kids are in bed and the house is silent, I'll pull out my book and read. Dating Detox is a time for just YOU! I think the whole town is haunted anyway. Spend that time with your family, the people who know you best. You know how it is.
Part of the book encourages people to turn inward and figure out their priorities before they start looking for a mate. We need to clean out the cobwebs. All the guys want to go out with you! I give it to my family history, and maybe even a higher power like God. I realize that no matter how rich, beautiful, successful or happy you are, everybody needs training.
Oh, I love it! New Orleans is such a very mystical, really cool town. I cried when you guys got Katrina, because I grew up in Florida. I mean, I went through Hurricane Andrew! I wanted Bush out the minute I saw that. If it were Virginia or Delaware, they would have done a million things! Why are we giving all the money to the rest of the world and not ourselves? I remember calling all the charities and giving clothes and shipping shoes and all that stuff. Once you live through a hurricane as a kid in Florida, you understand the ramifications.
I was in L. You just gotta go with the flow and hopefully rock and roll with the building. And New Orleans is one of the greatest meccas for cooking. My stepmother was from Baton Rouge, and she taught my how to cook Creole. I love to put it with my shrimp. I don't want to be the kind of girl that doesn't feel attractive if I'm not in a relationship.
Unfortunately, I have been that girl in the past. I understand and accept that being alone does not necessarily mean I have to feel lonely.
Anyone that knows me knows I love to watch the Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo. Patti Stanger and her dating rules keep me entertained from. I am a huge reality TV junkie and Bravo's Millionaire Matchmaker is one of you' re meeting losers, get off the market, and go into dating detox.
This is freaking me out a little because feeling this way voluntarily without having someone tell me this is the way I should feel is brand new to me. And isn't that the goal, according to Ms. Don't get it twisted now, dating detox is not easy. You know how it is. And I'd be lying if I told you I haven't taken a couple of them up on the offer of a date sorry Ms.
However, I am nowhere near ready for a relationship, no matter how eligible of a bachelor he may be.
As great as JI is and as much fun as we had together, he and I both know it just wasn't meant to be. I'll always have love for him and wish him the best in every aspect of his life. He'll make someone a wonderful husband one day. So what have I been doing to keep myself happy while single? Here are just a few examples:. When the kids are in bed and the house is silent, I'll pull out my book and read.
Sometimes I read other blogs written by single mothers. Anything to keep my mind occupied while allowing me to wind down from a busy day at work.
Try to do at least one of those things each day, just to remind yourself of how special you are.